<\/a><\/div>\nHis remark has stirred reactions online.<\/p>\n
See comments below:<\/p>\n
@Ejizzg: \u201cNot entirely true, but know this,The moment a woman has money, she feels she does not need a man, The moment a man has money, he feels he needs to get a woman. That\u2019s the difference between both genders.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n@cokebwoy: \u201cWe men are confusing these ladies, should they pay their bills themselves or wait for we men to sort it out for them. Please let\u2019s all come to a conclusion over this debate cuz I\u2019m tired.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n@ogaade: \u201cNigerian men are actually confused, one minute you\u2019re listening to Gehgeh because you don\u2019t wanna spend and another minute you\u2019re crying your girl doesn\u2019t listen to you because she can take care of herself\u2026. What do you all want?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n@Gboyerave: \u201cPaying bills doesn\u2019t cancel mutual respect. Independence is not a license for pride, and providing isn\u2019t a ticket for control. Relationship na partnership not boss and employee vibes. Balance is key. \ud83d\udcaf\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n@Kechuxoxo: \u201cThe average Nigerian man does not have a personality outside money, take away money and they\u2019re just men with low self esteem and no use. How can your entire personality revolve around money?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n@contentchic: \u201cThat\u2019s why when you people meet independent women that don\u2019t need your money, you become frustrated because you don\u2019t have any other thing to offer.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n@Bigwater: \u201cThis is for men who are only looking for slaves. The fact that a woman pays her bill doesn\u2019t always mean she\u2019ll belittle a man. It depends on individual woman and how a man leads her. There\u2019s a clear difference between leading a woman and controlling a woman. If a woman respects you as a man, she will follow your lead even if she\u2019s an independent woman. If a woman doesn\u2019t respect you, she won\u2019t follow your lead whether she\u2019s an independent woman or not. It all boils down to her mentality and character vs your masculinity and leadership as a man. Men who want to control women are the ones who are afraid of independent women. They opt for broke women so they can assume control and lord over them. These women in return pretend to respect them because of the benefits attached but once these men go broke or the women have made enough money to stand on their own, they abandon ship. Money doesn\u2019t buy respect, it only delays disrespect.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p>\n\n
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