Controversial Nigerian self-acclaimed relationship expert, Blessing CEO,<\/strong> has spoken after she announced the end of her relationship with IVD.<\/p>\n The announcement made earlier on Instagram came as a shock to many netizens.<\/p>\n However, breaking the silence amid the outrage, the self-acclaimed relationship expert disclosed that she made her engagement cancellation post to test her \u201ctouch of controversy\u201d.<\/p>\n \u201cI was losing my touch of controversy. Decided to test it again. I still got the magic. No be Blessingceo again. Boo boo for life. They love bad news ooooooo. Wedding loading,\u201d<\/em> she claimed.<\/p>\n Meanwhile, Blessing CEO\u00a0has criticised reality star Phyna over her clash with activist VeryDarkMan (VDM).<\/p>\n Abia Radio News<\/strong> reports that in a video posted on Sunday, Blessing CEO said she sympathised with Phyna\u2019s loss but faulted the way she handled her disagreement with VDM, insisting that it showed ingratitude despite his earlier support.<\/p>\n She argued that Phyna could have turned to other activists or platforms instead of attacking VDM and aligning with his rival, Izzy Ogbeide.<\/p>\n Blessing CEO also accused the Big Brother Naija winner of allowing her sister\u2019s health crisis to become online content, stressing that activists are human and deserve appreciation.<\/p>\n She maintained that Phyna\u2019s criticism of VDM while still expecting his assistance was contradictory and avoidable.<\/p>\n \u201cPhyna, I am sorry for the loss of your sister, but I need you to grab some lessons. Do not let your anger take the better part of you. Briddle your tongue, especially when you are in critical situations.. you will be careful because the devil is just looking for a small opportunity to nail you to the wall. This is not a case of you and VeryDarMan, this is a case of common gratitude. I am not a fan of VDM, but trust me, you see that thing that you did and that thing that you said, no matter how people want to applaud you, it is enough to work against you. And I am going to use this opportunity to beg you, if you feel like somebody is too controversial, leave them alone.<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cYou could have used Harrison, Daddy Freeze or Brekete when you knew you didn\u2019t want to use VDM. In a bid to spite VDM, you went to Izzy Ogbeide and you said a lot of things. Izzy used you as bait to fight VDM.<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cThey turned your sister\u2019s case into content creation. Activists are human beings too. When people are ungrateful, it kills your energy. Gratitude has a way of standing you tall. If someone has been kind to you before, even if the person offends you, just keep quiet.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u00a9 2025 Abia Radio News, a division of Tee Global Innnovations [abiaradios@gmail.com]. [email\u00a0protected]<\/strong><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Controversial Nigerian self-acclaimed relationship expert, Blessing CEO, has spoken after she announced the end of her relationship with IVD. The announcement made earlier on Instagram came as a shock to many netizens. 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