{"id":236952,"date":"2025-10-31T05:52:42","date_gmt":"2025-10-31T05:52:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.name.ng\/news\/why-i-refused-to-lend-tope-alabi-my-car-for-her-wedding-olaiya-igwe\/"},"modified":"2025-10-31T05:52:42","modified_gmt":"2025-10-31T05:52:42","slug":"why-i-refused-to-lend-tope-alabi-my-car-for-her-wedding-olaiya-igwe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/why-i-refused-to-lend-tope-alabi-my-car-for-her-wedding-olaiya-igwe\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Refused To Lend Tope Alabi My Car For Her Wedding \u2013 Olaiya Igwe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"mvp-content-main\">\n<p>Veteran Yoruba actor Ebun Oloyede, popularly called <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/naijaNews.com\/topic\/olaiya-igwe\"><strong>Olaiya Igwe<\/strong><\/a>, has shared one of the deepest regrets of his life.<\/p>\n<p>The actor said his regret was refusing to lend his car to gospel singer Tope Alabi and her husband for their wedding.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Abia Radio News<\/strong> reports that he narrated the incident during Tope Alabi\u2019s 55th birthday celebration, recalling how he had just bought a Mercedes-Benz V-Boot, proudly labeled \u201cOlolade Mr Money 1\u201d after the success of his film.<\/p>\n<p>At the time, Tope had informed him of her wedding plans and requested to use the car.<\/p>\n<p>Olaiya initially agreed but later changed his mind.<\/p>\n<p>He explained that his fear came from a recent experience in Ibadan, where the same car was stolen while he was promoting his movie.<\/p>\n<p>Although the vehicle was later recovered, the incident left him anxious and overprotective.<\/p>\n<p>When Tope called the day before the wedding, he avoided her calls and refused to release the car.<\/p>\n<p>Olaiya said he has since asked for forgiveness, but the guilt still haunts him.<\/p>\n<p>He said how life has since turned around, with Tope now owning multiple luxury cars while he struggles to buy one for himself.<\/p>\n<p>According to him, his decision was driven by fear, not malice, and he advised younger actors to think deeply before making choices that might leave lasting regrets.<\/p>\n<p>He said:<em>\u00a0\u201cShe informed me about her wedding, and I had just bought a car\u2026 But after she left, I had a second thought: what if armed robbers snatched the car from them?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cWhen I returned from Ibadan, Tope Alabi came to my house in Abeokuta and said: \u2018Big brother please we want to use your car for our wedding.\u2019 And I said no problem.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cA day before the wedding, I stopped picking up Tope\u2019s calls. I didn\u2019t give her the car. I disappointed Tope Alabi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cMy anxiety stemmed from my recent theft experience in Ibadan.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIt was not out of malice, but fear of losing what I had just acquired and failing someone I considered a younger sister.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, at her 55th birthday celebration, Tope Alabi received a Lexus SUV from her husband, Soji Alabi, marking another milestone in her journey.<\/p>\n<p><!-- CONTENT END 4 --><\/p>\n<hr\/>\n<p><span class=\"copyright\"><strong>\u00a9 2025 Abia Radio News, a division of  Tee Global Innnovations  [abiaradios@gmail.com].  [email\u00a0protected]<\/strong><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Veteran Yoruba actor Ebun Oloyede, popularly called Olaiya Igwe, has shared one of the deepest regrets of his life. The actor said his regret was refusing to lend his car to gospel singer Tope Alabi and her husband for their wedding. Abia Radio News reports that he narrated the incident during Tope Alabi\u2019s 55th birthday [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":236953,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[2250],"class_list":["post-236952","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-olaiya-igwe"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/EA2B5318-0054-45B3-B92D-A5FD42050E5C-1000x600.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236952","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=236952"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/236952\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/236953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=236952"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=236952"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abiaradiostations.com.ng\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=236952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}